Finding happiness comes down to three key things
Some spend a lifetime pursuing happiness.
A new study thinks it may haveĀ finally latched on toĀ the answer.
The report, What Makes Us Happy?, was a culmination of 15 years of bi-annual surveys of ordinary Australiansā attitudes towards happiness.
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It found close and supportive relationships, financial control and a sense of purpose built a solid foundation to achieve prosperity.
āThe most extraordinary finding is the stability of this mood happiness,ā Australian Unity Wellbeing Index author, Deakin University emeritus professor Robert Cummins, said.
āHappiness is an awkward word because, for many people, it means licking an ice cream, and thatās actually what we call an emotion. Itās fleeting.
āWhat weāre measuring is something quite different.ā
Researchers asked participants to assess their personal satisfaction across seven areas āĀ standard of living, health, achieving inĀ life, personal relationships, safety, community connection, and future security.
But the impact of external measures, including the economy, government and social conditions, were also assessed at a national level.
The essence of wellbeing
A positive sense of wellbeing comes down to a āgolden triangle of happinessā made up of three core elements.
Strong personal relationships are vital. Although not necessarily one at a romanticĀ level, it must provide closeness and support.
āIt doesnāt need to be a sexual relationship, but it needs to be an emotionally intimate relationship where you can share troubles and sorrows and joys,ā Prof Cummins said.
āOften, of course, thatās in the context of the family. It doesnāt need to be, but for most people thatās where they find that kind of intimacy.ā
Financial control and sense of purpose made up the other key points.
āItās not that more money is better, itās that we need a certain amount of money in order to lead a reasonable life,ā Prof Cummins said.
āMoney is also a very good defensive resource because if thereās a thing we donāt want to do, we can pay someone else to do it.
āWaking up in the morning and having something important to do is very important ⦠it doesnāt really matter what it is that gets us out of bed ⦠as long as you get a sense of fulfilment and of course purpose out of doing that thing, whatever it is.ā
Happiness is limited
Although prone to jumps and dips, prosperity was not limitless.
Throughout the 15 years, personal wellbeing remained between the ānormal rangeā of Ā 73.9 and 76.7 points, out of 100.
This could be explained by āhomeostasisā, the regulatory properties in a system.
āItās sort of analogous to body temperature,ā Prof Cummins said.
āWe maintain our body temperature to within a couple of degrees and in the same kind of spirit we maintain our mood happiness to within a very narrow range as well.
āIf we challenge the system too severely, then this homeostatic system collapses, it canāt deal with it anymore and then we lose this normal positivity on a long-term basis and that has the tragic consequence of encouraging us to feel depressed.ā
National wellbeing was āmuch lower and more volatileā, and hovered between 55 and 65 points.
Satisfaction with the Australian economy peaked in October 2007 and dropped to its lowest level in seven years in October 2008, around the time of the global financial crisis.








