Wedding backlash: How rich is too rich to seek crowdfunding?

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Online crowdfunding campaigns were once largely the preserve of struggling artists and entrepreneurs who used platforms like Kickstarter to help them get their dream projects off the ground.
Over the years theyâre expanded to fund everything from school or sporting trips and medical bills, to business start-ups â but where, exactly, do we draw the line?
Turns out it might be when a celebrity couple said to have an estimated net worth of up to $11 million turns to a crowdfunding website to help pay for their wedding.
After the backlash earlier this year when GoFundMe pages were launched for the families of Dawsonâs Creek star James Van Der Beek and Greyâs Anatomy actor Eric Dane, who died within a week of each other, it was perhaps not surprising that American actor AnnaLynne McCord and former British rugby player Danny Ciprianiâs dash for cash would ruffle some features.
McCord, best-known for her roles on TV shows 90210 and Days of Our Lives, and Cipriani, who spent time in Australia while playing for the Melbourne Rebels in the 2011 Super Rugby season, sought donations towards their Los Angeles wedding through US site Honeyfund.
The requested amounts ranged from $US100 ($A140) to $US600 ($A840) towards expenses such as the marriage licence, flowers, beverages and catering at their wedding reception, photography, the rehearsal dinner and even âwedding venue constructionâ.
âHelp us create our dream wedding and honeymoon experience with any amount of donation,â urged the page, which was launched just three weeks ahead of their big day.
It sparked immediate criticism from some social media users, one of whom wrote on X: âIf your reported $8 million canât cover your wedding, I donât think Iâm the one with the budgeting problem.â
âRidiculous. For heavenâs sake, you are adults, pay for your own wedding or tone it down,â another wrote.
Celebrity Net Worth puts McCordâs estimated net worth at $US4 million ($A5.59 million), with many media outlets claiming the pair have a combined worth of between $US8 million ($A11.19 million).
McCord told The Sun on the eve of the coupleâs nuptials last weekend that she and Cipriani received death threats over the Honeyfund page, which she said was intended as a way for wedding guests to make a contribution in lieu of gifts.
âI was told I was despicable â and that I was trying to extort money from my wedding guests,â she told the tabloid.
âPeople actually donated $10 towards the wedding so they could write on the site that Danny and I were disgusting.â
In the end, five of the nine registry items on the Honeyfund page remained âunfulfilledâ by the time the couple tied the knot in what has been described as an âelegant bohemianâ backyard wedding at their LA home on August 22.
However, it didnât seem to affect the celebrations, which People magazine reported included a âsacred day of blessingsâ with shamanic rituals and a friendly soccer match involving the bridal party â all before the wedding itself.
The Honeyfund page was still active mid-week, days after the wedding, with reports suggesting the couple are planning further ceremonies in London and at Cambodiaâs Angkor Wat.
When crowdfunding seems a bit rich
The global crowdfunding market has increased dramatically in recent years and is expected to continue growing, with one recent report projecting it will increase from $US2.08 billion ($A2.91 billion) in 2026 to $US5.81 billion ($A8.13 billion) by 2034.
But while this market includes everything from business start-up and investment opportunities, to creative projects and charitable causes, it is the crowdfunding campaigns by celebrities Ââ or people connected to celebrities â that seem to generate the most widespread backlash.
The GoFundMe page launched by friends of Van Der Beek after his death from cancer in February initially prompted a huge outpouring of sympathy â and dollars â for his wife and six children, before some commentators began to question why such campaigns were needed for the families of famous people.
There were similar criticisms over a page started to help the partner and daughters of Dane, who died at just 53 from ALS, a form of motor neurone disease.
âHow about donating to a charity instead of helping people that are already wealthy,â one social media user wrote about the Dane campaign, while others suggested celebrity donors should spread their cash elsewhere.
More recently, Priscilla Presleyâs son, musician Navarone Garibaldi Garcia, was attacked for launching a GoFundMe campaign to raise $US5500 ($A7700) help kickstart his new business venture â serving âaffordable organic pizzaâ from his driveway.
Explaining that he was offering free pizza to people who chipped in, Garcia said he was just seeking help to buy an oven that was âout of my budgetâ.
âHaters gonna hate ⌠and Iâm sure Iâll have to explain this many more times to ignorant people who think I should âask my momâ or that I have money,â he wrote at the time.
The top donor listed on Garciaâs GoFundMe page â which surpassed its target â was actually Priscilla Presley, who pitched in $US500.
Actor Alyssa Milano, who was at the centre of controversy two years ago when she set up a GoFundMe page to raise money for her sonâs baseball trip, was among who spoke out in defence of the Dane and Van Der Beek GoFundMe pages.
She argued at the time that âvisibility is not wealthâ, and the actorsâ friends were merely doing something ordinary in âpassing the hatâ.
âThe idea that once youâve been on a hit show you are permanently insulated from financial vulnerability is just not todayâs reality,â Milano said.








